Just because you’ve been together for years, there’s no reason your sex life should be bland. Follow these 10 tantalising tips and you’ll be having mind-blowing sex just like you did when you first got together.
1. ENGAGE IN SOME PDA
Paris is world-renowned as the city of love. Take a cue from its romantic inhabitants and show your partner how much you love them when the two of you are out and about. Holding hands and kissing in public can make you feel like a couple of teenagers all over again.
2. TELL EACH OTHER YOUR SEXY DREAMS
Never let a sexy dream go to waste. Next time you wake up feeling aroused after a sexy scorcher, tell your partner first thing in the morning. Chances are you’ll be in for some good morning sex.
3. MAKE EYE CONTACT
It’s been said millions of times, but the eyes truly are the windows to the soul. For the ultimate in bedroom bonding, make a pact to keep your gaze focused on each other while you make love. It’ll keep you anchored to the moment—getting an eyeful of each other as you both climax.
4. EXPLORE EACH OTHER
The skin is the largest organ of the human body. Run your hands all over your partner’s body—or use a feather tickler—and find those sensitive nerve endings. This extrasensory experience will elevate your pleasure and his.
5. DON’T USE WORDS
The language of love needs no words. Spend an evening using only body language to get your intentions across. Be inventive and use your imagination.
6. TAKE A TIP FROM YOGA AND BREATHE
Slow exhaling breath is the secret behind toe-curling orgasms. Even if you don’t know a thing about yoga you can still master your breathing. Instead of holding your breath as your orgasm approaches, exhale, expelling all the air from your lungs before breathing in again.
7. WEAR NOTHING BUT JEWELLERY TO BED
Break out the bling and live out those Vegas showgirl fantasies wearing only jewellery to bed. Use your dangling earrings to graze your partner’s lips and chest or skim a long strand beads up and down their legs. Let your imagination run wild!
8. WORK IT OUT
Working out is good for your health and great for your sex life. Orgasms are more intense when your blood is pumping, so hit the gym in the evenings as close to bedtime as possible.
9. MAKE IT A PARTY
Crack open a bottle of bubbly and sip it in the bedroom before you make love. It’ll feel like a private party for just the two of you.